A first conversation from hello to goodbye
A complete first conversation can use only about 15 short lines, and you already know all of them.
This unit puts everything together. A first conversation in English has a simple shape. You greet, you give names, you ask one or two easy questions, you react to the answers, and you close politely. Each part uses lines from the earlier units. If you can do these five steps, you can start a conversation with a classmate, a colleague, a neighbor or someone at a party.
Step by step
Step one is the greeting: Hi! or Good morning! Step two is names: I’m Minji. Nice to meet you. Step three is one or two questions: Where are you from? What do you do? Step four is reacting. Short reactions show you are listening: Oh, really? That’s interesting. Me too! Cool. Step five is the close: Well, it was nice meeting you. See you later!
Reactions are the part learners most often skip. In some languages, listeners show attention with a small sound or a nod. In English, listeners often add short words like Really? Oh, nice! or Wow. If you only answer questions and never react, the talk can feel like an interview. One reaction plus one question back is a good habit: Oh, you’re from Canada? Nice! Which city?
When you do not understand
You will not understand everything, and that is normal. Use the lines from the last unit: Sorry, could you say that again? Could you speak more slowly, please? You can also check a word: Sorry, what does that mean? If you cannot find a word, describe it or say I don’t know the word in English. People are usually patient with a learner who keeps trying.
Closing politely
A good close has two parts: a reason or signal, and a goodbye. Well, I have to go. Oh, my bus is here. I should get back to work. Then: It was nice meeting you. See you around! Take care! If you want to meet again, add: Maybe we can have coffee sometime. Do not walk away in silence after the last answer. A clear close leaves a good last memory.
| Step | Example line |
|---|---|
| 1. Greet | Hi! / Good morning! |
| 2. Names | I’m Minji. Nice to meet you. |
| 3. Ask | Where are you from? What do you do? |
| 4. React | Oh, really? That’s interesting! |
| 5. Close | Well, I have to go. It was nice meeting you! |
- Hi! Is this seat free? · asking to sit down
- Sure. I’m Daniel, by the way. · yes, and giving a name
- Nice to meet you. I’m Minji. · first meeting
- Where are you from, Minji? · asking about home
- Oh, really? That’s interesting! · reacting to news
- Sorry, could you say that again? · asking someone to repeat
- Well, I have to go. It was nice meeting you! · closing politely
- You too. Take care! · answering a goodbye
| Is this seat free? | can I sit here? |
| by the way | used to add something |
| Oh, really? | a reaction to news |
| That’s interesting! | a reaction that shows interest |
| Me too! | the same is true for me |
| What does that mean? | asking about a word |
| I have to go. | a signal to close |
| See you around! | casual goodbye |
| Maybe we can have coffee sometime. | an offer to meet again |
Hi! Is this seat free? Sure. I’m Daniel, by the way. Nice to meet you. I’m Minji. Where are you from, Minji? I’m from Busan, in Korea. How about you? I’m from Toronto. I teach English here. Oh, really? That’s interesting! What do you do? I’m a nurse. Sorry, could you say that again? I’m a nurse. I work at a hospital. Oh, cool! Well, my friend is here. It was nice meeting you, Daniel. You too, Minji. Take care!
- What is the usual order of a first conversation?
- Greet, names, questions, reactions, close
- Close, greet, names
- Questions, then names, then greet
- Which line is a reaction?
- Oh, really?
- Where are you from?
- I’m Minji.
- Why are reactions important?
- Without them, the talk can feel like an interview
- They are required by grammar
- They end the talk
- You do not know a word the other person used. You say…
- Sorry, what does that mean?
- Goodbye.
- Me too!
- Which line is a signal to close?
- Well, I have to go.
- Nice to meet you.
- What do you do?
- In the dialogue, where is Daniel from?
- Toronto
- Busan
- London
- In the dialogue, what does Minji do?
- She is a nurse
- She is a teacher
- She is a student
- Which line offers to meet again?
- Maybe we can have coffee sometime.
- I have to go.
- Is this seat free?
- Complete the close: It was nice ___ you.
- What is a good habit after someone answers your question?
- React, then ask one question back
- Change the subject at once
- Say goodbye
- What should you NOT do after the last answer?
- Walk away in silence
- Say it was nice meeting them
- Say take care
- Five steps: greet, names, ask, react, close.
- React and ask back: Oh, really? Which city?
- When lost: Sorry, could you say that again? What does that mean?
- Close with a signal and a goodbye: Well, I have to go. Nice meeting you!
Sources for this course (3)
- Merriam-Webster, entries hello (first known use 1834, alteration of hollo) and goodbye (first known use 1575, alteration of God be with you) (merriam-webster.com/dictionary/...)
- Cambridge Dictionary, entries how do you do?, good night, cheers, Ms, excuse me (dictionary.cambridge.org/dictionary/english/...)
- British Council LearnEnglish, Speaking A1: Meeting new people (learnenglish.britishcouncil.org/free-resources/speaking/a1/meeting-new-people) with the LearnEnglish team reply on nice to meet you and pleased to meet you, and Listening A1: Meeting a new team member (learnenglish.britishcouncil.org/free-resources/listening/a1/meeting-new-team-member).
Checked: 2026-10-17